sushi for one.

As the final weeks of summer approach, you are beginning to reminisce about all the little adventures you took, or maybe the adventures you wish you took but couldn't find someone to go with you. If the latter statement pertains to you, clearly you haven't been paying attention to my posts.

There comes a time in a young adult's life that he or she will be without friends or family for one reason or another. It may be just for a few hours, a couple of days or maybe even months at a time. Maybe a best friend is busy planning her wedding and can't meet for a hipster burger at Smorgasburg in Brooklyn. Or maybe an old college roommate who moved across the country can't make the opening of an art exhibit in Chelsea. After the 20th "I'm sorry" text, only two options become available… stay in and sulk or go to these places alone.

The choice seems easy right? So, what are people still afraid of? Exploring alone is the new "group hang". Yes, I said it. Has anyone realized that our culture is completely on board with this as well? Don't believe me? Well, let me point out a little trend that has basically taken over the world (both social media and physical). That's right, the #selfie.

And what is a #selfie?  A picture a person takes of him/herself somewhere… alone. It says it right in the name, "selfie". It's not "groupie" (well that is already taken but you get my drift). Today's culture is not only acknowledging the lone traveler, it is encouraging these solo adventures! Armed with our iPhones, society is demanding we get out there and document our every move with our front-facing camera. 

If you're only in New York for a short time, make sure you venture out in your hometown. No matter how small a city, there is always something to do, somewhere to see. And if you're from NYC, take your explorations to the next level. Get out of the city. In fact, get out of America all together and try traveling abroad. I spent a week by myself in England, exploring London, shopping at local flea markets, and dining on multicultural cuisine. It was a trip I will never forget and still think of fondly today. Was it terrifying? Not at all. The anticipation was the worst part. Once I arrived, I realized how liberating it was to travel solo, with (figuratively) no baggage. Time was all mine and I saw what I wanted to see and went where you wanted to go. Buzzfeed posted a great video on tips and ideas for traveling alone. I posted it below:

Traveling alone or exploring a city alone is not always the ideal situation. There are times when it can be somewhat depressing (especially at meal time). An image or moment may spark an interesting thought yet there is no one to share it with. Silences at a long stretch can be a bit boring; however, that makes it all the more important to converse with other people. Being forced to communicate with strangers actually boosts a person's social skills. That is one of the many added benefits to being alone. Below I have listed some other benefits that I believe are achieved by traveling solo:

1. Independence: Completely relying on yourself for everything from directions to decision making can really help you become independent. When traveling alone, there is no one else to count on.  You decide where to go, what to do and when to return. It is not always glamorous being the leader but, when there is no one else in front (or in back) of you, there is no other choice.
2. Confidence: Being a leader and successfully navigating a city can really boost your confidence. Although it may seem scary at first, by the end of the day you will feel like you can accomplish anything.
   
   
   
   
3. Navigation Skills: Familiarizing yourself with any city can only help when trying to navigate through unfamiliar cities. In many cases, major cities are set up similarly. Therefore, the more experience you have, the better. 
4. Story Time: As I mentioned in a previous post, traveling alone often leads to overhearing or witnessing some great moments. Stories you can later share with all your friends and family. "How worldly," they'll say. "Always telling us such interesting stories." The only way to experience the world is to get out there and experience it. No one wants to hear about how you sat on the couch all day and watched Netflix. 
5. The Unexpected: You never know what you'll come across in NYC. You may plan on one destination and end up somewhere completely different. This city is filled with wonderful pit stops along the way that always keep things unexpected. 

Speaking of unexpected, on Sunday I visited the Museum of Moving Images in Long Island City for a screening of Chinatown. On my walk over, I stumbled upon LIC Flea, an outdoor merchant and food market. Not only was I able to take in a film but beforehand I enjoyed some local fare and vintage shopping, which made for a great afternoon.

As someone who has been traveling alone around NYC, and abroad, for a while now, I feel like somewhat of an expert. And although the beauty of traveling solo is "no baggage", there are some things every explorer should pack before a long or short journey:

• iPhone to take a good #selfie
• A good book to read on the subway, train, plane, etc. 
• Headphones and music player to block out all the noise
• Cash is important because little shops or local markets are all over major cities
• Light snack (almonds, granola bar, etc.) and a bottle of water for obvious reasons

Throughout my almost 30 posts, I have continuously stressed the importance of exploring NYC this summer. (A simple Google search with result in thousands of options for great NYC activities to partake in.) And although it is important to experience all New York has to offer, I think it is just as important for a person to spend time alone. Time alone is a great way to learn a lot about yourself, reflect and de-stress.

Even though almost all my posts encourage immediate activity, I am the first to understand that sometimes you don't feel like going out and facing the world. Well, luckily your couch has been waiting this the whole time, feeling neglected. But don't feel too bad taking a day/night off every now and then. The best part about being an independent adult in NYC is pouring yourself a glass of wine and ordering sushi for one.

Let's Go to the Movies

Not every summer weekend is blessed with beautiful weather. And, like today, gloomy skies and rain showers can really ruin your plans to get out and explore. But don't let some grey clouds get you down. Instead of sulking around your apartment why not enjoy the perfect rainy day activity: going to the movies.

While seeing a movie may be kind of boring and uneventful in another city, in New York it is truly an experience. And most of the time it is a good experience. Those of you who have gone to a movie theater in NYC know that it's kind of like rolling a pair of dice, you really don't know what the outcome will be. New York is famous for offering some wonderfully unique cinematic gems, however, it is also known for loud audiences and filthy theaters. 

(Photo via Welcome to Ladyville)

To avoid the theaters with gum on the seats and rowdy high schoolers in the back row, I suggest checking out this great guide to the NYC movie theaters posted by Gothamist. The guide is a thorough (and very accurate, at least by my experiences) listing of where to find the best movie experience in the city, whether you are looking for less-crowded mainstream theaters, art house indie flicks, or an old-school "movie palace". 

Comfortably seeing a movie alone may be my favorite thing about NYC. It's so common place that I think it's considered a requirement that every New Yorker must go to a movie alone at least once. If you don't believe me, let this hysterical Buzzfeed post tell you (because I know you listen to everything you read on Buzzfeed). Or how about an endorsement from Lebron James? Yes, Lebron James, who has millions of people to see a movie with, chooses to go alone. 

(AP Photo/Marcio Jose Sanchez, File)

There really is no excuse. Great theaters are all over the city, they offer something for everyone, and I guarantee there will plenty of people enjoying the film alone. Plus, even if it's crowded with couples and families, think about how easy it is to find one seat instead of two!

Dining Out with "The One Percent"

With over 20,000 restaurants and bars in NYC, it can take a person almost a lifetime to try them all. And if that's not bad enough, eating at the city's best restaurants usually costs a lifetime's worth of savings. Luckily for us it's Restaurant Week! Which means we don't have to be Woody Allen or Sarah Jessica Parker to enjoy a meal at hotspots like Nobu and Mr. Chow.

Twice a year (once in the winter and once in the summer), restaurants across Manhattan participate in Restaurant Week. The event, which is actually four weeks long rather than just one, is a great opportunity for us normal New Yorkers to experience some of the very best dining options this city has to offer. Participating restaurants create special prix fixe menus for lunch ($25) and dinner ($38). These menus are valid all week excluding Saturdays (Sundays are optional).

Restaurant Week is great for two reasons:

1. $25 for a delicious three-course lunch in NYC is a steal, don't let anyone else tell you differently. I spend $15 daily at Whole Foods for a piece of grilled chicken and a side of orzo salad… not very exciting. 
2. Some of the city's priciest and well-known restaurants participate in Restaurant Week. It isn't often that a three-course dinner at Tao or STK will run you $38; it would probably be at least double that amount.

The full list of participating restaurants (and prix fixe menus) can conveniently be found here. Peruse the list and do a little Yelp research. If dining out alone still makes you uncomfortable, find a spot with a dining bar or choose a restaurant for lunch only. Whatever you choose, do it quickly; Restaurant Week will only be running until August 15th.

Go ahead, feel what it's like to dine out like "the one percent." Your table at the Olive Garden in Times Square will always be there next week. 

Ponies on the Subway

“But her ponies aren’t real! They’re made of plastic.”

The best part of traveling alone in New York City is the amazing opportunity to eavesdrop on people’s conversations. With no distractions, no friends to entertain, no family to ask touristy questions (“Can we take the subway to the Statue of Liberty?”), it is easy to become engrossed in the lives of your fellow travelers. And often, their lives become a great story for you tell…

This past Friday, weary from my latest adventure, I hopped on an N Train headed for Astoria. Having perfected the art of traveling unnoticed, I found a seat, took out my book and lowered my eyes. No one pays attention to a person reading a book, it’s like they’re not even there. At the next stop, a young boy and his, I presume, nanny got on the train. As much as I try to avoid children on these journeys, the crowded train put a wrench in that plan; the boy took a seat right next to me. 

The boy, about five years old, was in a frenzied state of excitement, his legs and arms immediately began flailing around. Clearly his nanny decided to feed him Sour Patch Kids after she picked him up from school. She did her best to rein him in but five-year-olds don’t really have a sense of personal space. After about the second kick to my knee, I was ready to give the typical New Yorker loud sigh and eye roll. As I began to breath in, I heard the nanny ask him about the red letter sent home with him. My ears perked up. I needed to know if this kid was kicking other children as well! “He obviously has a history,” I thought. “Hopefully his parents get him the help he needs before it’s too late.”

The boy’s legs and arms came to a crashing halt. As if he was being questioned on the witness stand, he immediately laid out his defense. “Ms. Janet told the class we could play musical chairs. Sherri was sitting next to me. She always sits by me,” he said. (Typical anti-social New Yorker.)

He continued to tell the nanny that this little girl, Sherri, put her pony dolls down on another chair next to him. “I told her ‘your ponies can’t play musical chairs, Sherri, they’re not real.’ She started crying and I don’t know why. I was just telling her the truth.” (Typical New York realist.)

Apparently this "tattletale," Sherri, told the teacher and the boy was sent to the time-out chair. When the game was over, the boy had to tell Sherri he was sorry and that her ponies were indeed real.  Unless this is some magical Kindergarten class, forcing a kid to lie about the realness of My Little Pony probably isn’t the best idea. Even though he "wasn't sorry," and he knew the ponies weren't real, the boy did what he was told.

He paused in his story, thinking he had satisfied his nanny’s inquisition, but he was wrong. “Well, if you apologized, why did you get a red letter sent home?” she said.

“Well," he said, hesitation in his voice. "We were having animal crackers for snack time, so I raised my hand and said ‘Ms. Janet, my mom said I can’t eat real ponies...’ She sent me back to the time out chair.”

Maybe this kid wasn't so bad after all.

*Although I have overheard tales like this on the subway, this story is a work of semi-fiction. 

To the Top of the Met and Beyond

There are two very important summer locations that we have yet to discuss: museums and rooftops. Summer in NYC is all about the rooftops. Besides parks, they are the only way to enjoy fresh air and sunshine while escaping the insufferable heat radiating from the sidewalks below. As the city's trendiest summer locale, rooftops can be found just about anywhere, including, you guessed it, museums!

From May to October, The Metropolitan Museum of Art (you know that gigantic stone builiding on the eastern edge of Central Park?) opens its beautiful rooftop garden to the public. With unobstructed views of Central Park and the West Side skyline, it is truly a sight to behold. If that's not enough to entice you, each season the Met commissions a world-renowned artist to transform the open-air space. This season's exhibit is entitled The Roof Garden Commission: Dan Graham with Gunther Vogt. 

 

The rooftop exhibit features astroturf flooring and a large center installation comprised of "curves of steel and two-way mirrored glass between ivy hedgerows," according to the Met's website. "Graham’s structure is part garden maze, part modernist skyscraper façade." And part funhouse, if you ask me! If "modernist mazes" are not your thing, the rooftop also offers a cafe with speciality cocktails, beer, wine and lunch options.

If the sun is a little too strong on the rooftop, head inside to enjoy some cool air-conditioning and one of the Met's special exhibits. I find that museums are a wonderful place to experience alone. They're perfect for spending the day getting lost and leisurely taking in all the details. The quiet halls are a welcome break from the noise of the city streets.  Although many people find the Met's grand size overwhelming (it's the largest art museum in the US), I think it's best to choose one or two exhibits to view instead of trying to cram everything in at once. 

I chose the Costume Institute's exhibit Charles James: Beyond Fashion. The exhibit, housed in the special exhibition galleries and the newly created Anna Wintour Costume Center, showcases the work of couterier Charles James. The special galleries present a retrospective of his breathtaking ball gowns worn by society elite and Hollywood legends. 

As James was renowned for this technical and tailoring skills, the Costume Center portion is dedicated to how each design was created. The intricate cuts and patterns of James' designs are presented on digital-motion screens. To the untrained eye, the garments may seem simple but the motion graphics detail the precision of each piece. 

It's the end of July and summer is fleeting quicker by the day. Now is the time to start killing two birds with one stone, and a one-stop trip to a museum and rooftop is the perfect plan for a summer day. Its is a great way to enjoy New York, enjoy some culture, and best of all, enjoy the quiet!

Get 'Out of Doors' and Groove Under the Stars

The only thing that makes a hot summer day bearable is a warm summer night. And what better way to enjoy these summer nights than 'Out of Doors'. Lincoln Center Out of Doors, currently underway, is a free festival that offers an eclectic mix of music and dance under the stars. In its 44th season, the three-week festival is open to the public until August 10th.

The diverse showcase of performances include everything from jazz and modern dance to urban-disco and ballet. The free shows typically begin from 5:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. and take place throughout Lincoln Center: the bandshell in Damrosch Park, David Rubenstein Atrium, Hearst Plaza, etc. (Tip: Because this is a free event, lines can be very long for popular performances. It is best to arrive as early as possible to snag a good spot!)

Along with nightly shows, 'Out of Doors' will also host some day-long "fests" within the festival. On July 27th, globalFEST will offer musical and dance celebrations from, you guessed it, around the globe. From August 6th to 10th, AmericanaFEST will honor the roots of this country through film, dance and music. For more information on the performances, click here.

If dancing to great music on a beautiful summer night (for free!) isn't enough, this year the festival is offering delicious snacks. Hill Country BBQ has a food truck set up with a menu full of their smokey favorites AND refreshing alcoholic beverages. It's the perfect evening to enjoy alone (well, not exactly alone if you consider the swaying crowd of a couple hundred New Yorkers).

Escape from New York

Sometimes the best thing about living in New York during the summer is escaping New York during the summer. Let's be honest, as great as this city is, everyone needs a weekend getaway. Following in the footsteps of Erica Bray and her trip to Disneyland, I decided to travel alone to Florida for a few days… (no, not to Disney World!) What I found is that traveling solo outside New York is really not much different than exploring the city alone. Even though it's a plane ride rather than a subway ride, the distance from home never even entered my mind.

I was fortunate enough to have a family friend offer his oceanside condo in Jupiter Beach, a quiet residential town 25 minutes north of West Palm Beach. When traveling alone, especially if you're new to the game, it's best to go somewhere low-key, a place you feel comfortable. Jupiter Beach is relatively quiet this time of year mainly because "snow birds" return to New York for the summer months. Which was great news for me; I only had to share the pool deck with one family and a couple of European tourists.

Besides spending a good chunk of the three days collecting seashells and diving into the aqua-colored waves, I also was able to explore the area. Jupiter Beach is perfect for traveling alone because it allows you to be lazy or be active. On an active day, I headed to the Jupiter Inlet Light, a towering rust-colored lighthouse. Along with offering gorgeous views of the beach, the lighthouse also houses a museum filled with information on its history.

With my rental car acting as my only friend on the trip, I was actually much more willing to get out and explore; I had no other choice. And when it came to eating alone, this beachside community offered the perfect spots to dine in a judgment-free zone (while sipping a Mai-Tai, of course). One restaurant I ventured to was a recommended local hangout named Too Bizarre. Lucky for me, the restaurant had a sushi/wine bar where I happily parked myself. I enjoyed a delicious spicy tuna salad, shrimp tempura rolls and Cabernet. The laid-back vibe of the restaurant was a welcome change from the fast pace of NYC and I soaked in every second.

Before I knew it, the weekend was over. I brushed the sand off my toes and headed back to the airport. Boarding the place I found another perk of traveling alone, an empty middle seat! It was the relaxing trip I needed, a quiet getaway with just me, myself and I. Unfortunately, it was back to reality on Monday.

Volunteering for One.

So far, we have talked a lot about all the cool things you can see and do this summer in NYC. But, along with all the fun adventures, I believe it is also important to give back. With the free time that the summer months allow, now is a great opportunity to become involved with an organization in need. And although you may think otherwise, volunteering is the perfect activity to sign up for alone. Not only will you be helping others in need, and exploring NYC in the process, you will also be joining other solo helpers without any awkwardness.

In case you don't want to take my word for it, below is an interview I conducted with Alexandra Holtzer, who works for Volunteer Relations at New York Cares. NYC's leading volunteer organization, NYCares runs "volunteer programs for 1,300 nonprofits, city agencies, and public schools."  Its main goal is to connect the needs of the community with New Yorkers (like us!) who are willing to help out. Below Alexandra shares with us how to get involved, why summer is the perfect time to volunteer and why signing up solo is the way to go!


Peter: Usually, people in New York have a lot more free time in the summer. What are some ways they can get involved through NYCares?

Alexandra: Summer is a great time to explore different parts of New York that you might not want to trek to in the cold winter. New York Cares offers a plethora of outdoor environmental revitalization projects in every borough throughout the summer and into the fall. We have opportunities to clean up and plant community gardens to painting murals on buildings that might need a little face-lift. New York Cares also offers tons of outdoor sports activities where volunteers can help kids stay active while they’re on summer vacation. Or you can sign up for a field trip project like chaperoning kids to the zoo. We also provide several indoor projects every week that will keep you cool but give you a reason to explore a new neighborhood you’ve never been to before.


P: What are the best ways to sign up for a program?

A: The best way to sign up for a project would be to go to our website; however you can always call us with any questions or to sign up. The first step in the process is to make a profile at newyorkcares.org, after you’ve done that we ask that the volunteer participate in an orientation about New York Cares.


P: Do you have in-person assistance?

A: We provide in-person orientations in every borough and digital orientations that you can attend from your own couch. After the orientation the volunteer is welcome to sign up for any open project they’re interested in!
(For our project sign-up hotline please call 212-402-1101 during business hours)


P: There are so many volunteer opportunities listed through NYCares. How do you suggest a person narrow down his/her search to find an organization that is of interest?

A: Like you said New York Cares has an array of projects for volunteers to participate in from animal care to promoting health and wellness. There’s something for everyone! There are a few ways to narrow down all the opportunities to find the best fit for a volunteer. I personally like to look at location first, someone from Staten Island might not want to go up to the Bronx or vice versa, because accessibility is imperative to volunteering we offer projects in every borough and you can use the location filter on our project search page on the website to do so (we even have a subway line search tool). After deciding the preferred location, the volunteer can pick what day of the week they would like to volunteer and what time of the day. When all of those options are decided the volunteer can then pick from the assortment of projects offered.
(To use the NYCares search tool, click here.)


P: Do you find that more people sign up by themselves or with friends/family?

A: We find that more people sign up individually. Volunteering is a great way to meet new people if you’re new to New York or if you’ve lived here since you were born!


P: People may be hesitant to volunteer if they don’t have someone to go with them. How would you respond to this hesitation?

A: First I would say that being hesitant about volunteering alone is completely normal! I would just think about your first day of school, you had your brand new backpack and sharpened pencils but no friends! When you entered the classroom you might have been a little nervous but by lunch you already had a best friend and you were throwing crayons at the student you liked. That’s exactly what going through orientation and projects is like (minus throwing the crayons). Don’t be afraid to be open, volunteers are all here for the same reason, to help fellow New Yorkers so you already have that in common! Wayne Gretzky said it best, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."


P: What are the common demographics you notice most within volunteering groups (age, gender, etc.)?

A: New York Cares volunteers are very diverse. We have volunteers from 18 to 90, native New Yorkers and recent immigrants, and a variety of professional and academic backgrounds. That being said, our volunteer base does reflect trends in volunteerism nationally. For instance, we tend to have more female volunteers than male, at a ratio of about 2:1. Additionally, our volunteers do tend to skew toward the younger end, with a majority being under 35. However, we do have hundreds of volunteers who 55 and older as well.
(For more information about New York Cares, click here, email info@newyorkcares.org or call 212-228-5000 during office hours.)


And there you have it, nothing to be afraid of. Volunteering this summer is really the perfect mix of exploring NYC while also giving back to the community. And as Alexandra said, the volunteering groups are so wonderfully diverse that no matter what your age or gender, you are likely to feel comfortable. I encourage you to take Alexandra's great advice and sign up for a project today.

How To: Citibike

There are three things that scare me about living in New York: cockroaches, falling onto the subway tracks and riding a bike through the city streets. I think most people will find my first two fears rational but, maybe not the third. Riding a bike around NYC is suppose to be fun not terrifying, right? So why does a root canal sound more amusing than cruising around the city on a ten-speed? Hard to say but, I knew I would have to face my fear because riding a bike is the perfect way to explore the city alone. I mean just look at the mode of transportation: one seat. Luckily, it's no longer necessary to buy a $300 bike to maybe ride it a few times during the summer. NYC's Citibike, a bike sharing program, lets people easily rent bikes across Manhattan and Brooklyn.

I am sure most of you have seen the Citibike stations across the city but, even to the most seasoned New Yorker, it can look intimidating. Below is a step-by-step guide to using Citibike for the first time:

Step 1: Locate a Citibike station near you (a station map can be found here).

Step 2: Head over to the kiosk and briefly read over the directions.

Step 3: Use the touch screen to begin the checkout process. (Tip: The process for a first-time rider is lengthy so make sure to leave yourself some time.) There are two pass options: a 24-hour pass ($10) and a 7-day pass ($25). For the purpose of this post, we will be using a 24-hour pass. (Tip: An annual membership is available online for $95 and allows riders to skip the touch-screen checkout.)

Step 4: After entering all the necessary information (contact information, payment information, etc.) you will receive a printed receipt with a 5-digit code.

Step 5: Find the right bike for you; sit on a few if need be. As a first-timer rider, it is totally acceptable to act like Goldilocks. Once you've found the right bike, enter the 5-digit code on the keypad. Wait for the green light and pull the bike from the dock. (Annual members receive a personalized key instead of a code.)

Step 6: Ride like the wind! (Obeying all traffic laws, of course!)

Step 7: When you're done exploring, find a station near you and return the bike to an empty dock. (Tip: A Citibike app is available to help you locate docking stations.)

Very Important Tip: Citibike only allows riders 30 minutes per bike trip. To avoid overtime fees, return your bike to a station then swipe your credit card at the kiosk to get a new 5-digit code at no extra charge. It is a bit of a hassle but, nothing in New York City is perfect.

Riding a bike is really the best way to explore NYC alone this summer. Even if you're nervous at first, like me, you'll be happy once you get started. A bike allows you to cover so much more ground! Just think of all the things you can see and do in half the time. If you're not willing to spend a few hundred dollars on your own bike, try out Citibike. It is a great option for New Yorkers, temporary visitors and even tourists!

Feeling French? Oui Oui

This weekend it's time to dust off that beret and break off a piece of freshly-baked baguette. That's right, it's Bastille Day, or French National Day. The annual tradition is celebrated in NYC every July with all things French: food, goodies, culture, etc.

In the past, I have attended the Bastille Day street fair on 60th Street. It is a fun (albeit crowded) day on the East Side loaded with French Cuisine and desserts. (Who can resist a French pastry?) However, until I stumbled upon the blog Tracy's New York Life, I would have never known there was more to Bastille Day!

The blog, created by Tracy Kaler, is full of all things NYC: Events, Style, Culture, Travel. Basically every cool thing that happens (or is going to happen) in New York, she writes about it. Originally a personal blog about her experiences in New York, it has now transformed into an informative guide to the city. Tracy often welcomes guest contributors to also post on her blog.

Her post, 5 Ways to Feel French During NYC Bastille Week, is a really informative guide to the best activities surrounding Bastille Day. This post gives readers a plethora of options. From deals on French restaurants to the Bastille Ball, Tracy's picks are great for solo explorers. Like I said, I've only attended the street fair once, so Tracy's post gives you the low down on how to be tres chic this weekend.

So take this weekend to honor the French; after all, they did give us a nice little gift named Lady Liberty! I think we can all appreciate that.

Take Me Out to the Ball Game

We have talked about a few places that are quintessentially New York but, we have yet to mention one distinct landmark: Yankee Stadium. In a city that bleeds blue, the Yankees are the unofficial mascot of New York City. And the team's newly built stadium is a great place to visit whether you're a "pinstripes" fan or not.

Built in 2009, right next to the original house that Babe Ruth built, the stadium is a beautiful structure fit for a legendary team. (As the most expensive baseball stadium ever built, it should be pretty close to perfect!) Located in the South Bronx, the stadium is actually a breeze to get to; the B, D and 4 trains stop right in front. However, what's best about this stadium is that it's not just for baseball fans, although a slight interest would be beneficial. 

Tickets to home games start at $17 for bleacher seats. Now they're not the most glamorous seats but, on a summer day, its hard to find an outing for much cheaper. Use the extra money you would have spent on a better seat to buy cold beers and a delicious New York hot dog. The bleachers are also the perfect place for sitting alone. The atmosphere is really energetic and, especially during an exciting game, you'll feel like a part of the crowd in no time!

Tip: Some bleacher seats have obstructed views. Make sure to research your section before you purchase.
Tip: Discount tickets are offered to college students and teachers for select home games. For more information, click here.

If you're interested in a better seat, or not too interested in the actual game but rather getting your drink on, book a seat at the Mohegan Sun Sports Bar. Located right behind center field, it's like watching a game at your favorite bar. However, instead of a TV, the game is right in front of you. Tickets range from $55 to $65, not including food or drinks.The stadium offers two other sit-down restaurants, NYY Steakhouse and the Hard Rock Cafe. It also has over 25 concession stands and numerous food carts with choices ranging from sushi to tacos. (Try to avoid the intoxicating smell of garlic fries, I dare you!)

If you're interested in the history of this legendary New York team, purchase a guided-tour ticket before the game (and extra $35). The tour will give you access to the Yankee Museum and Monument Park. The Museum is small but filled with great mementos from past Yankee greats, including a "ball wall" with autographs from past and present Yankee players. Monument Park, located behind center field, is a fitting tribute to iconic Yankees who helped make the team the New York institution it is today.

Visiting Yankee Stadium is a great summer activity, and one you can cross off your "essential New York" list. And even though they're not having the best season who really cares?! It's about the experience, the tradition, and the great American pastime. There is no problem big enough that a cold beer and hot dog on a summer day can't fix.

Previously on Wikipedia...

In my post Kayak for One., I shared with you my change to the "Hudson River Park" Wikipedia page.  If you don't remember, the edit was made to the page's Amenities section, specifically elaborating on the great (and free) kayaking services available to the public. Well, it has been a few weeks so let's check in to see if the text I added still appears.

Hudson River Park

Yep, still there. I guess the powers-that-be at Wikipedia found my addition to be worthwhile. I now hope people who view the page take advantage of the free kayaking service!

The Center of It All

My post from a couple of weeks, 1,700 and One., included a disclaimer. If you don't remember, you can either click here or I will gladly refresh your memory. My disclaimer was simple. I reserved the right to subsequently post about one specific park in NYC… Central Park.

Yes, Central Park. Heard of it? It's a little park smack dab in the middle of Manhattan. As the most famous park in the city, and possibly the country, it really doesn't need much of an introduction. It's beautiful, spacious and offers wonderful summertime activities. Because it is so well known, I've decided to skip over the standard amenities Central Park offers (bike tours, outdoor yoga, etc.). Instead, I want to share with you the best free events offered in the park this summer.

Every summer, the Public Theatre produces Shakespeare in the Park in Central Park's outdoor Delacorte Theatre. This year, "revenge, rage, grief and delusion thunder upon the Delacorte as Tony® and Emmy® Award winner John Lithgow takes the stage as one of theater’s great tragic heroes, KING LEAR."  Tickets to Shakespeare in the Park, performed every night (except Mondays) from July 22nd to August 16th, are free to the public. Because they're free, they are a little tough to come by. However, the Public Theatre gives you some options:

• wait in line the day of the performance (tickets are distributed at noon but arrive early!)
• enter an online lottery (more information here)
• look out for distribution around the five boroughs (view distribution schedule here)

With a hop-notch cast, great location, and free tickets, Shakespeare in the Park is a New York summer tradition you have to try at least once!

Do you love films set in NYC? Of course you do, who doesn't? And what better place to enjoy a movie about NYC than in Central Park. Well, you're in luck because this August the Central Park Conservancy Film Festival will celebrate "Scenes From Our City". During the week of August 18th, bring a blanket and spread out in Sheep's Meadow to watch Big, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Way We Were, Ghostbusters and Rear Window on the big screen. Tickets are free and a DJ will warm up the crowd when gates open at 6 p.m. (the film will start at 8 p.m. but arrive early to get a good spot!) So park a picnic (sorry, no alcohol), cozy up and enjoy all these movies about the world's greatest city in the city's greatest park.

I know Central Park can sometimes seem played out, or just a large square tourist trap with trees, but I guarantee you that even the most seasoned New Yorker can find something new to do. Almost any activity done in Central Park in the summer is a magical experience. And if you have never visited, go now because my words will never do it justice. 

We Are Not Alone

(Well, figuratively we're not alone but physically we're still alone. Or else why would you still be reading this blog?)

A little over two weeks after creating this blog, I was scanning the top stories on Yahoo!. Wading through the (mostly) mindless fillers of Kardashian gossip and "top résumé mistakes", I came upon an article that made me stop in my tracks. "Could it be? Did I just read that correctly?" I thought. I read the article's title again, and I did in fact read it correctly: One of the Best Days of My Life Was at Disneyland - Alone.

Alone!? Are there really others like me out there, a loner who isn't afraid to get out and explore? Yes, it is true. And her name is Erica Bray. Although, instead of exploring NYC, Erica decided to travel to the Happiest Place on Earth, Disneyland.

(Photo: Courtesy of Erica Bray)

I know what you're thinking, "Disneyland? All those families and couples!" But Erica shares in your fears and the article, published on Yahoo! Travel, turns out to be a very funny (and informative) read. I, of course, identified with Erica and her willingness for a solo adventure. I also thought this would be the perfect article to share with you guys.

Erica took what could have been an awfully awkward experience and turned it into "one of the best days of her life." Read the article and you'll see the pros of her solo adventure greatly outweigh the cons. Skipping the long lines? Yes, please.

So, the next time you're not feeling brave enough to venture out in NYC alone, remember Erica Bray and her trip to Disneyland. We are not alone! Loners are all around us, don't be ashamed. Get up, get out and enjoy what could be the best day of your life.

Bright Lights, Big City

Fireworks on July 4th… as American as apple pie.  And where is the best place to catch this favorite American pastime? Well, NYC of course.

This year, The Macy's 4th of July Fireworks Spectacular, the granddaddy of NYC fireworks,  is moving back to the East River. Tired of letting those freeloaders from Jersey ogle his city's fireworks, Mayor DiBlasio is now giving Brooklynites a front-row seat. The barges will be docked just south of the Manhattan Bridge, so the best views will be from the South Street Seaport, Brooklyn Heights, and even (from a distance) Staten Island. 

If you're brave enough to endure the mob of spectators, the city advises that you arrive prior to 5 p.m. to claim a spot along the waterfront. (Check here for Manhattan/Brooklyn access points.) Bring a good book while you wait because the main event doesn't begin until 9 p.m.

If you can't snag a prime seat for the fireworks, try catching the Empire State Building light show. (The city's second tallest building can be seen from many more places in and around NYC.) For the second year, the light show will be produced in conjunction with the Macy's Spectacular. Check out the video below from last year's illuminating performance:

Something about the glittering lights, majestic view and Jay Z melt my cold heart. Sure, fireworks are quintessentially America but, this video proves that the Empire State Building is quintessentially New York. And even if you're not from here, you'll be glad you chose NYC to celebrate the 4th. 

Journey to the Lost Borough

It all started last month when I was casually skimming the internet during my "morning scroll" (you know, laying in bed and scrolling through your phone for posts or articles you missed while sleeping). I came upon an article about a second Diary Queen location opening on 14th Street in Manhattan. "Second?" I thought out loud. "Where is this first location mysteriously located?" I read further and there it was: Staten Island. I know what you're all thinking. "Well, that doesn't really count as a NYC location, does it?" My sentiments exactly! But, those are the boundaries of our great city and we must abide by them.

I couldn't get the thought of a hot fudge sundae out of my head. And because the Manhattan location wouldn't open for another week, I knew what I had to do. Make a pilgrimage to Staten Island. So I packed my bag, kissed my dogs, waved goodbye to the townspeople and started on my journey to the mysterious island. Because isn't that what summer is all about? Crazy little adventures. When else during the year can you travel great distances for ice cream? It is the perfect excuse to get out there and explore.

I made my way to the very tip of the Manhattan and was greeted by a huge "can't-miss-it-if-you-tried" ferry terminal. Maybe it was the giant letters spelling out "Staten Island". The FREE (yes, free) ferry departs every 20 or 30-minutes in each direction. Don't let the hoards of people fool you, there was plenty of space on the giant ferry boats, no need to squeeze next to obnoxious tourists. Instead, I found a quiet window seat and enjoyed the beautiful vista.  I don't care how long you've lived in this city, the views of downtown Manhattan and the Statue of Liberty are always breathtaking. Honestly, it was worth the trip alone.

After 20 or so minutes of (thankfully) smooth sailing, I arrived at St. George Terminal in Staten Island. As I stepped out into the terminal, there it was, shining like a beacon: Dairy Queen.

I made it. Like seeing an old friend again after a long absence, I was nervous at first. But, as soon as I reached that counter, it was second nature: "Medium hot fudge sundae, please." Just as delicious as I remembered.

My journey could have ended there, I mean I did reach the promised land and claim my reward. However, I thought that wouldn't really be fair to my readers. So I decided to be adventurous and explore these parts unknown.  Luckily, some fun attractions are located right outside the ferry terminal.

The terminal's waterfront promenade is the perfect place to sit and stare at beautiful downtown Manhattan. Walk a little further down the promenade and you'll find the Island's 9/11 Memorial, Postcards. The sculpture, built in 2004, is a tribute to those who died in the attacks. Turn around and you'll see the stadium for the Staten Island Yankees, the popular minor league baseball team. Can't afford a trip to see the Bombers in the Bronx? Enjoy a great day of baseball here and maybe you'll see the next great Yankee player (Robinson Cano and Brett Gardner were SI Yankees before hitting it big).

Summer in NYC is all about the little adventures. The best part is, you never know where they will lead you! Even if you're not a fan of Dairy Queen (I shudder to think), hop on the SI ferry and explore the borough that is oft-forgotten. From the Staten Island Zoo to the beaches of the South Shore, you will definitely find an adventure worth taking.

The Search for the Red Spoon

Growing up in New Jersey, there were always three things I could count on in the summer: riding my bike well into the evening hours, catching lightning bugs in my grandparents' backyard, and enjoying many of these...

That red spoon. As a kid, it was the symbol of a perfect summer evening. On those warm breezy nights, I couldn't wait to ride my bike or walk with the family to Dairy Queen. It was what I looked forward to the whole day. "Maybe we can get Dairy Queen tonight," I hoped. Luckily, it was never too hard to convince my family.

As a teenager, the joy of ordering a medium hot fudge sundae (same thing every time) definitely did not wane. Summer nights, driving around town with friends, usually ended up at DQ. And now as an adult, living in NYC, I needed to find that red spoon. I needed to order that medium hot fudge sundae once again.

Well, it's not as easy as it sounds. Up until recently, this elusive red spoon could only be found in one NYC location. Can you guess where? Stay tuned for my next post and I will share the tale of my paramount journey.

Until then, let me know some of your favorite summer memories, as a kid or as an adult. Everyone has a summer story to share!

Beyond NY(Sea)

Okay, I know I am a few days late but, it's officially SUMMER!  And new season, new font (at least for this post.) Let's all take a few seconds to jump around in excitement. Done? Good, because we really have a lot of activities left to cram in. With only three short months left until the first leaves begin to fall, lets take a short quiz...

Question 1: When you think of summer you think of what? 

Beaches! Yes, of course beaches. The unofficial symbol of summer.

Question 2: And when you think of New York City, you think of what?
I'd venture to guess that none of you said beaches. 

And why would you? NYC may be world-famous for a lot of things but, its beaches certainly don't have the best reputations. So, instead of wading through the sewage in the Rockaways, let's take a trip to the not-so-far east... 

LONG BEACH

Recently voted the cleanest beach in the Northeast, Long Beach features a beautiful two-mile stretch of soft sand, blue water and a brand new boardwalk (built after the destruction from Superstorm Sandy). Less than an hour from midtown (you read that correctly), Long Beach is the most convenient (and $economically friendly$) beach outside the five boroughs. It is so close to NYC, that I can draw a map for you right now:

         NEW | MAN | QUE |
         JER | HAT | ENS |

         SEY | TAN | BRO | LOOONG ISLAND
                     OOK |
                     LYN |  *LONG BEACH* 

 
No car? No problem. The LIRR offers round-trip tickets for just $22 from Manhattan's Penn Station. Worried about getting lost on the train? Below are the incredibly confusing directions from Penn Station. Are you ready? You might want to get a pen.

Step 1: Get on the LONG BEACH line at Penn Station.

Step 2: Get off the train at LONG BEACH.

I know, that was challenging. You may want to do a dry-run the day before.

But all kidding aside, everyone deserves a beach day this summer, even us New Yorkers! And if you're like me, you will never even dip a toe in any of the rivers. So, head out to Long Beach from some genuine surf and sand. It's clean, close, and cheap! You can't ask for much more than that.